Here are some of the current myths you may hear about divorce mediation.
 

Myth: Mediation just doesn’t work.

 

Fact: Actually, mediation is successful in between 40% to 80% of cases.   

 

Myth: Mediation permits a spouse to control the other

 

Fact: The right mediator will be attentive to any imbalances in the power between the spouses. If the mediator observes that one spouse is persistent in attempted domination over the other, they should call the mediation to an end. However, a mediator cannot solve power imbalances outside of the mediation room.

 

Myth: Mediation is a bigger burden than hiring a lawyer

 

Fact: Whether a mediator or a lawyer is hired, there are still a lot of decisions to be made. Mediation offers an alternative approach regarding the decision-making process. Hiring a lawyer is ultimately far more expensive.

 

Myth: Mediation drags out the duration of a divorce

 

Fact: mediation actually takes less time than litigation. In most cases, hiring a lawyer takes longer than mediation. Mediation can occur in just days or weeks.

 

Myth: Mediation didn’t work for my friend so it won’t work for me.

 

Fact: Every divorce is different. Just because your friend’s divorce couldn’t be solved through mediation doesn’t mean that your divorce can’t be solved using mediation.  The circumstances in each divorce vary. To ensure you are receiving the best mediation possible, make sure your mediator is educated and experienced.

 

Myth: My spouse is unreasonable; therefore we are beyond being helped by mediation.

 

Fact: Mediation success is not dependent on the disposition of either party. As long as both parties agree to try mediation, they have a formula for success. Using basic communication skills, your mediator will resolve any issues.

 

Myth: Mediation is expensive

 

Fact: Mediation costs significantly less than a divorce. In some cases, mediation services can be offered at a reduced price or even free of charge.

 

Myth: Finding a divorce mediator is difficult.

 

Fact: Mediation is a popular alternative to litigation. It is fairly simple to find a qualified mediator in your area.

 

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